{"product_id":"blindsided-by-his-betrayal-surviving-the-shock-of-your-husbands-infidelity-paperback","title":"Blindsided By His Betrayal: Surviving the Shock of Your Husband's Infidelity - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eCaroline Madden\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYour husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou used to be so together, so trusting. Now you're falling apart and doing things you would have never even considered doing, such as: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* Obsessively checking your husband's email and Facebook accounts\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* Going through his cell phone history while he is in the shower\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* Freaking out if he is 10 minutes late (or if you text him and he doesn't reply right away)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* Questioning whether you are attractive\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e* After a rare happy moment with your husband, getting really, really angry and raging at him out of nowhere\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eYou're scared. Angry. Obsessive. Devastated.\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eOne minute, you hope your marriage will make it. The next minute, you want to kill him. (And the other woman, too.)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAll of this makes you feel like you are losing it. Sometimes you worry that you are going crazy. You wonder if you'll ever be the same again.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou are NOT crazy  You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal  Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book will help you figure out what to do as you deal with these explosive emotions. It's important that you understand that your feelings--erratic and unpredictable as they may be--are normal. You need to understand why you feel the things you feel and what to do with those feelings.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eCaroline Madden\u003c\/strong\u003e, infidelity expert and marriage therapist describes: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePosttraumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire Horribly)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eUnderstand the thoughts that plague you\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe stupid things your husband says and why he says it\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book does not take a position on whether or not you should stay in your marriage. The suggestions provided here will help you get through this difficult time, even if you decide to leave the marriage. It is geared towards helping you deal with your tumultuous emotions and make sound decisions.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 92\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.19 x 9 x 6 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e May 15, 2016\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51774577574176,"sku":"9780986148521","price":13.66,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0974\/9764\/5344\/files\/ab66870df5d44710dab4f5698c5e0643.webp?v=1780451289","url":"https:\/\/ebocreations.com\/products\/blindsided-by-his-betrayal-surviving-the-shock-of-your-husbands-infidelity-paperback","provider":"The E-Book Oasis LLC","version":"1.0","type":"link"}