{"product_id":"loosen-the-grip-strategies-for-raising-independent-and-confident-critical-thinkers-paperback","title":"Loosen the Grip: Strategies for Raising Independent and Confident Critical Thinkers - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eLisa Anderson\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eHow can parents take back their power to discover and develop the best way to parent for their child?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBy hitting the pause button, shutting out all the noise that tells them how they should parent, and building the confidence to create the relationship that best nurtures and supports their children's well-being and independence.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThree years into parenting, Lisa Anderson realized that the way she was parenting wasn't healthy for her or her daughter. She sought counseling to help her figure it out, and so began her journey of discovering the best parenting approach for \u003cem\u003eher\u003c\/em\u003e child.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLisa had her work cut out for her. When her daughter was six, the advisors at her school expressed concern that she had ADHD. Lisa took her to a psychologist who, after months of testing, diagnosed her with BRAT syndrome. \"It took me a minute to realize what he meant--she was a brat.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt was at this point that Lisa realized she had never said \"no\" to her daughter, not because she thought it was best for her daughter, but because that's what she knew.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"I was going to create a little monster if I didn't change my way of thinking and shift my focus from what I needed to what my daughter needed.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt was a difficult concept to understand, and an even more challenging task to achieve, but through her work on her own trauma coupled with her education and experience in social work and counseling, Lisa figured it out. Not the way to be a perfect parent, but the way to be the best parent for her child. Isn't that what every parent really wants and what every child deserves?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFear, guilt, and social pressures are driving parents to be over-involved and their children to be overscheduled and overstressed. Children's freedom to develop their autonomy is being restricted under the guise of keeping them safe from things we simply cannot control. Hypervigilant parenting comes at a significant cost to all of us, as is evident through the increasing number of anxious and depressed children and the emerging adults who lack the confidence and the skills to be self-sufficient. Somewhere along the way we have forgotten that our number one job as parents is to raise our children to be capable, independent adults.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSomething needs to change.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eBack Jacket\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAre you ready to be the best parent for \u003cem\u003eyour\u003c\/em\u003e child?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eTwelve-year-olds who don't know how to pack a lunch, seventeen-year-olds who don't know how to use a washing machine, and thirty-year-olds who don't know how to schedule their own appointments. This isn't some whacky story about an upside-down world. This is an accurate depiction of today's youth and their inability to independently function in the world.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003cem\u003eLoosen the Grip\u003c\/em\u003e, Lisa Anderson sounds the alarm bell on today's pattern of hypervigilant parenting, its root causes, and the negative impact on our children's development. \"We seem to have forgotten that our number one job as a parent is to raise our children to be independent and self-sufficient adults.\" Something needs to change.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLisa is the voice to lead us through that change. Through her honest accounts of her own parenting disasters and successes, along with her shared wisdom drawn from twenty-five years of clinical insights counseling children and parents, Lisa helps her reader to disengage from the constant bombardment of how they should be parenting and guides them in their own discovery of what is best for their child and how to embrace their power to become the parent \u003cem\u003etheir\u003c\/em\u003e child needs them to be.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 160\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.37 x 9 x 6 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e August 22, 2023\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51779939172640,"sku":"9781642256970","price":19.42,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0974\/9764\/5344\/files\/780fb67eba618daf91a9b3df6020240b.webp?v=1780520659","url":"https:\/\/ebocreations.com\/products\/loosen-the-grip-strategies-for-raising-independent-and-confident-critical-thinkers-paperback","provider":"The E-Book Oasis LLC","version":"1.0","type":"link"}