{"product_id":"the-people-pleasers-guide-to-loving-others-without-losing-yourself-paperback","title":"The People Pleaser's Guide to Loving Others Without Losing Yourself - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eMike Bechtle\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWe all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear--\u003ci\u003eStart putting your own needs first \u003c\/i\u003e-- doesn't work, because we do love helping other people \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's \"problem\" isn't to fundamentally change who you are--it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. In this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is actually a strength.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eBack Jacket\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs a people pleaser, what's the most common advice you hear? \u003ci\u003eStart putting your own needs first!\u003c\/i\u003e But here's the thing: it doesn't work. Why? \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBecause you \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003ci\u003elove\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cb\u003e helping people!\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eWe all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's \"problem\" isn't to fundamentally change who you are--it's to fundamentally change where you find your worth. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eIn this freeing book, Dr. Mike Bechtle shows you how to stop letting your fears of rejection, criticism, invisibility, or inadequacy drive your actions and start rebuilding your sense of self-worth from the inside out. When you do, you'll discover that what you once thought of as a struggle is one of your greatest strengths.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eDr. Mike Bechtle\u003c\/b\u003e (EdD, Arizona State University) is the author of several books, including \u003ci\u003ePeople Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eHow to Communicate with Confidence\u003c\/i\u003e. His articles have appeared in publications such as \u003ci\u003eWriter's Digest\u003c\/i\u003e, Pastors.com, and \u003ci\u003eEntrepreneur\u003c\/i\u003e. A frequent speaker, Bechtle lives in California. Learn more at www.mikebechtle.com.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eDr. Mike Bechtle\u003c\/b\u003e (EdD, Arizona State University) is the author of several books, including \u003ci\u003ePeople Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003eHow to Communicate with Confidence\u003c\/i\u003e. His articles have appeared in publications such as \u003ci\u003eWriter's Digest\u003c\/i\u003e, Pastors.com, and \u003ci\u003eEntrepreneur\u003c\/i\u003e. A frequent speaker, Bechtle lives in California. Learn more at www.mikebechtle.com.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 224\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.6 x 8.5 x 5.5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e January 19, 2021\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51759872573728,"sku":"9780800737870","price":14.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0974\/9764\/5344\/files\/45074e44658a7eca7f6b0cf491dfe930.webp?v=1780164791","url":"https:\/\/ebocreations.com\/products\/the-people-pleasers-guide-to-loving-others-without-losing-yourself-paperback","provider":"The E-Book Oasis LLC","version":"1.0","type":"link"}