{"product_id":"to-love-and-be-loved-paperback","title":"To Love and Be Loved - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eSam Keen\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eTo Love and Be Loved\u003c\/i\u003e is a spirited challenge to a culture obsessed with romance and intimacy but dangerously ignorant of the full range of human love. Like a fresh wind, Sam Keen sweeps away tired self-help nostrums and reams of \"bad advice from Dr. Lonelyhearts\" to reveal a stunningly new map of love in all its forms. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLove is not something we \"fall\" into, claims Keen, but a complex art combining many skills and talents that take a lifetime to learn fully. At the center of his book are sixteen distinct \"elements of love\" ranging from \u003ci\u003eattention\u003c\/i\u003e--a precious gift we can bestow on co-worker, friend, child, and spouse alike--to more exclusive gifts like \u003ci\u003edesire\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003esexuality\u003c\/i\u003e. Combining stories, poems and quotes with insights from modern psychology and spiritual tradition, Keen brilliantly explores the elements of \u003ci\u003ememory\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003esolitude\u003c\/i\u003e in love, the importance of both \u003ci\u003eenjoyment\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003ecommitment\u003c\/i\u003e, and how we can cultivate the essential qualities of \u003ci\u003eempathy\u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003ecompassion\u003c\/i\u003e. Each piece ends with suggestions for strengthening our daily practice of the element, so that we constantly enlarge our ability to love in all our relationships. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe final section of the book is a soaring meditation on the claim that \"those who love know God,\" an invitation to experience our place in the universe through the eyes of love.\u003ch3\u003eFront Jacket\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eTo Love and Be Loved is a spirited challenge to a culture obsessed with romance and intimacy but dangerously ignorant of the full range of human love. Like a fresh wind, Sam Keen sweeps away tired self-help nostrums and reams of bad advice from Dr. Lonelyhearts\" to reveal a stunningly new map of love in all its forms. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLove is not something we \"fall\" into, claims Keen, but a complex art combining many skills and talents that take a lifetime to learn fully. At the center of his book are sixteen distinct \"elements of love\": ranging from \"attention--a precious gift we can bestow on co-worker, friend, child, and spouse alike--to more exclusive gifts like \"desire and \"sexuality. Combining stories, poems and quotes with insights from modern psychology and spiritual tradition, Keen brilliantly explores the elements of \"memory and \"solitude in love, the importance of both \"enjoyment and \"commitment, and how we can cultivate the essential qualities of \"empathy and \"compassion. Each piece ends with suggestions for strengthening our daily practice of the element, so that we constantly enlarge our ability to love in all our relationships. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThe final section of the book is a soaring meditation on the claim that \"those who love know God,\" an invitation to experience our place in the universe through the eyes of love. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\"From the Hardcover edition.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eSam Keen\u003c\/b\u003e is a noted author and lecturer who has written thirteen books on philosophy and religion. He earned graduate degrees from the Harvard Divinity School and Princeton University, and spent twenty years working as an editor of \u003ci\u003ePsychology Today\u003c\/i\u003e. Keen coproduced the Emmy-nominated PBS documentary \u003ci\u003eFaces of the Enemy\u003c\/i\u003e, and was the subject of a PBS special with Bill Moyers entitled \u003ci\u003eYour Mythic Journey with Sam Keen\u003c\/i\u003e. When not writing or traveling around the world lecturing and giving seminars on a wide range of topics, Keen cuts wood, tends to his farm in the hills above Sonoma, takes long hikes, and practices the flying trapeze.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 256\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.6 x 7.5 x 5 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e May 04, 1999\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51758797685024,"sku":"9780553375282","price":18.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0974\/9764\/5344\/files\/612f0ea91b169a1a850fe85725c1d1a7.webp?v=1780135834","url":"https:\/\/ebocreations.com\/products\/to-love-and-be-loved-paperback","provider":"The E-Book Oasis LLC","version":"1.0","type":"link"}