{"product_id":"why-couples-fight-a-step-by-step-guide-to-ending-the-frustration-conflict-and-resentment-in-your-relationship-paperback","title":"Why Couples Fight: A Step-By-Step Guide to Ending the Frustration, Conflict, and Resentment in Your Relationship - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eMira Kirshenbaum\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eBestselling author and relationship expert, Mira Kirshenbaum examines power dynamics in relationships and teaches couples her three-step method for ending their power struggles and finding their way back to love.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eHow do two well-meaning people who genuinely care about each other end up in a damaged, unsatisfying relationship?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eEvery couple faces conflict and often the root of the problem is how we're not getting our needs met. Initially, we will try to remedy it with reasonable requests--or hints--and a kind tone. But when that fails, we feel disempowered, which leads to sighs, eye rolls, silences, subtle put-downs, insults, and even threats. These are power moves. And while we often engage in power moves unintentionally, the result is the same: our partner feels disempowered and will try to re-empower themselves. Thus the continuous, endlessly destructive dynamic takes hold. \u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eRelationship expert Mira Kirshenbaum, bestselling author of Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, reveals a better way with her three-step method for conflict-free problem solving. By recognizing each partner's power moves, we can instead find mutually satisfying ways to heal our hurts and meet each other's needs.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eNon-judgmental, compassionate, and wise, this is an indispensable guide to help couples end the negative cycle and get back to the loving understanding that brought them together in the first place.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eMira Kirshenbaum\u003c\/b\u003e is the bestselling author of twelve books--including the influential \u003ci\u003eToo Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay\u003c\/i\u003e--which have been translated into more than twenty languages. A two-time finalist for the Books for a Better Life award, Mira is co-founder of The Chestnut Hill Institute, an internationally recognized center for research and psychotherapy for couples, families, and individuals. She has been a workshop leader and trainer for medical professionals at Harvard Medical School and other institutions. She has appeared on CNN, \u003ci\u003e20\/20, Today, and CBS' Early Show, \u003c\/i\u003e and has been featured as an expert in \u003ci\u003eO magazine, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Glamour, \u003c\/i\u003eand \u003ci\u003eGood Housekeeping. \u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 352\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 1 x 8 x 5.4 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e January 26, 2021\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51758778351904,"sku":"9780806540443","price":15.95,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0974\/9764\/5344\/files\/b1cfe752d02218314f38aa295f00b94d.webp?v=1780135210","url":"https:\/\/ebocreations.com\/products\/why-couples-fight-a-step-by-step-guide-to-ending-the-frustration-conflict-and-resentment-in-your-relationship-paperback","provider":"The E-Book Oasis LLC","version":"1.0","type":"link"}